Fear of rejection is one of the most common cockblocks. Here’s a real world example:

I went out with my close friend Tod (not his real name) to a lounge in the city.  He saw this cutie across the room and quickly budged me, ‘peep it man, look at that ass.’  Naturally, I budged him back, ‘what are you waiting for?’  I was going to slap him when he said, ‘Chill, I ain’t getting played in front of everybody.’  Of course, by everybody he meant all our other friends that were there.  Though he admitted his fear of rejection something most people never do.

This happens to many people.  Believe it or not, I used to have a fear of rejection when I was younger. There are ways to get over the fear of rejection, and I am here to hook you up.

• You have to think rationally.  What happens if a girl says no?  Nothing.  Exactly.  Your friends might make fun of you but at least you got the balls to approach the cutie.

• Don’t ask yourself ‘Why did she say no?’ It shouldn’t matter to you.  Girls will say no to you, it is something you have to accept.  Not every woman you meet will get on her knees for you.  Girls have their own interests just like you have yours.  Some girls will be really interested in you and some won’t.  I am sure there are women who you aren’t interested in too.

• When she rejects you, you know it has everything to do with her and nothing to do with you.  She is taken, or going through a break up, or she is lesbian, or she only likes midgets.  Whatever, the reason, don’t pin it back to yourself.

• Once you experience real rejection, you will know that being scared to approach women is actually childish.  I have a friend who would constantly brag about how he had his girl around his finger tips, and that no matter how many times they broke up, he knew he could just get back with her.  About a month ago, she broke up with him and completely cut him off;  No phone calls, texts or even emails!  Now that’s real rejection.  This same friend of mine goes out and approaches girls all the time now not fearing whether they would say no to his drink offer.

Next time a women says “No thanks,” don’t hang your head low.  Just say ‘Okay cool,’ keep your chin up, and be ready to approach the next hottie.  Women who say no to you are only denying themselves a privilege. This is an important thing to keep in mind, especially if you’re low on confidence.

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